Tool

The icebreaker

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What: Ready-made ”I-messages” for different relationships – to copy and send.

Why: The hardest part is often starting. An I-message expresses your experience without blaming, which makes it easier for the other person to listen.

How: Pick a situation (partner, teenager, colleague, friend), read the suggestions and copy the one that fits – adapt it in your own words.

Pick a situation and copy a ready-made I-message to send.